One of the most difficult things is to figure out how to let the past go and learn to forgive someone you love.
YouYou might think it is easy, especially if there are a lot negative memories. But what about all those times that you had to let someone or something you care about go? Those moments are difficult to forget.
I’ve always hated when someone has told me to “just” move on or let it go after a breakup. Although I can generally ignore most things, there are situations where it’s not easy to move on.
Take a bad breakup with someone who you thought was going to be in your life forever, for example — someone you loved with the kind of passion the best love quotes are all about.
Would you agree to let go of your worries and just get on with your life?
Most likely not. Because you want closure.
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Although it hurts to admit it, there are certain situations in which you might never be able to get closure.
It’s hard to believe, but you have to let go of regret and worry about the past. This only leads to more pain.
Okay, I’m sorry. Telling someone else to move on is so much easier said than done, but let’s think about ways you can put this into action.
I love to burn everything that is a reminder of me after a bad breakup.
However, it is a good idea to let go of any resentful memories. And if you’re not in the business of getting rid of things, cleaning up can also be cathartic. Trust me, deep cleaning can make a huge difference in your home and heart.
You can cry it out if all else fails. Sometimes, you just need to let it out until it doesn’t hurt anymore.
And even when it feels like you can’t move on no matter what it is that’s keeping you from letting go of the past, just remember that you are strong enough to handle anything life throws your way. I know it sounds cheesy, but it’s true.
These healing quotes on moving on from a relationship can help you get in touch with your inner wisdom and put the past behind you so that you can start to look towards the future.
ToHere are some suggestions to help you get started. 25The best quotes to heal a broken heart and learn how to move on from someone you loved:
1. OnFinding closure.
“If you truly want closure… you must close the door at some point.” — Jacki Wells Wunderlin
2. OnAccept that it is over.
“Sometimes your heart needs more time than your mind to accept what you already know.”
3. OnYou can heal your wounds.
“ToTo heal a wound you must stop touching it.”
4. OnLiving for the present
“If you don’t leave your past behind, it will destroy the future.” Do not live for what yesterday took away, but what today has to give.
5. OnRefrain from being hurt by others
“TheThe easiest way to teach someone how you should treat them is to refuse to allow them to hurt you. Walk away …” — R.H. Sin
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6. OnAccept what is.
“Accept what it is, let go what was, and have faith for what will be.”
7. OnLooking for happiness.
“Stop searching for happiness in the exact same place that you lost it.”
8. OnMaking space for your future.
“If you lose it, it is because you are meant to find better. Let go of the past and accept what is coming. — Mandy Hale
9. OnLet go even if it hurts.
“Sometimes, it’s necessary to let go what is killing you, even if that’s the only thing killing you.”
10. OnFinding love.
“TheYou are less capable of loving the present if you have anger towards the past.
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11. OnYou are about to start the next chapter of you life.
“YouIf you keep reading the last chapter, you won’t be able to start the next chapter.
12. OnLooking towards the future.
Remember, you can’t see what’s in front unless you let go what’s behind.
13. OnLife.
When you think about your life, keep in mind that no amount guilt or anxiety can fix the past.
14. OnBe whole.
“Life is too precious to begin your day with the broken pieces of yesterday. This will certainly ruin your wonderful today and ruin you great tomorrow.”
15. OnLet go of the past
“Inhale and exhale the future. Inhale and exhale your past.”
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16. OnLiving in the now and here.
“ToDo: Live in the present.
17. OnCreate the life you desire
“Maybe it’s more than trying to fix what is broken. It could be about starting over and creating something new.
18. OnLearn to let go of your mistakes
“Let go and forget about your mistakes and failures. YouWhile you cannot do anything about the future, you can do something right now. — Joel Osteen
19. OnAccepting that the past has passed.
“YouYou can only move forward if you accept it as is.” — TheGoddess Rebellion
20. OnCourage is a virtue.
“When you have the courage to let it go of what you cannot change, that’s one of the most joyful moments of your life.”
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21. OnChange.
“TheThe secret to change is not fighting the old but building the new. — Socrates
22. OnHealing takes time.
“Time is not a healer unless you are willing to move with it.”
23. OnStart over
“Don’t be afraid of starting over. It’s a brand new opportunity to rebuild what you truly want.”
24. OnAccept the flow of changes.
“When the winds change, some people build walls, while others make windmills.” — Chinese Proverb
25. OnMaking today beautiful
“Don’t be sad about the past. It’s gone. Do not worry about the future. It hasn’t come. Enjoy the moment and make it beautiful.”
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Emily Ratay lives in Pittsburgh and is a full-time author.
